First Kiss How To

Most men want to know how to initiate the first kiss. Find out if the girl is ready to be kissed by you before you go for that first kiss.

Here are few ways to find out if the girl wants to kiss you as well:

1. Gently stroke the hair of this girl and see how she responds.

2. Hold her hands and gently squeeze them.

3. Brush her arm.

Measure her responses to your moves. If she responds positively to two of those then you know she is ready to be kissed by you. Don't worry if she does not squeeze your hand back or doesn't brush your arm. She is ready to be kissed as long as she does not ask you to stop or walk away from you.

At this point take a step towards her or slowly pull her towards you. Then look into her eyes, slowly lean forward and gently kiss her on the lips. It is always better to give her a quick peck first then go for a longer kiss.

You can always pull back before you go for the next/long kiss but I advice not to. It is better to stay in the kiss position and plant another kiss right away. You can always look into her eyes, or hold her hands or hold her on the waist before going for the next kiss, the longer kiss.

Once in a while the girl may be surprised that you kissed her or tried to kiss her. As a result it is also possible that she may pull back when you try to kiss her. This does not necessarily mean that she does not want to get romantically involved with you. Neither does it mean that she does not want to be kissed by you.

She might have pulled back because she was not expecting a kiss at that moment. May be you did not give her enough indicators to expect a kiss at that moment.

If you have performed the above three tests, chances are that the girl will not pull back when you go for the kiss.

If the girl does not want you to kiss her she will tell you or walk away from you. If she does neither of those and continues to stay and participate you can conclude that she wants to be kissed by you.

Test her attraction again buy running the three tests of touching her.

If the girl is comfortable with you touching her again than you know she sees you as a romantic interest and you can go for the kiss again.You should have no problem getting a good kiss this time for she will be expecting it.

Here are few extra tips:

- Make sure to use some breath fresheners or mint before you kiss the girl.

- Don't start professing your love to the girl right after you kiss her. It is too early in the game.

- Shave if you plan to go for a kiss.

- Don't try to kiss her in front of her friends when you kiss her the first time.

- It's ok if she says no to kiss. Don't fight or put her down for saying no. Don't try to pressure or convince her either.

- You can make things a bit more romantic by holding her hands or hold her on the hips when kissing. You could also whisper something in her ears between breaks from kissing. Try playing with her hair. Most girls love it. Whisper and go back for another kiss. Make it a long one this time.

- It is too obvious and boring to kiss at the end of the night. Be spontaneous by kissing her early in the night.

- Don't get all awkward after you kiss hey. Don't go all sexual either unless you are absolutely sure that she would be ok with it. You do not want to make things awkward or ruin the moment by coming across as uncomfortable or desperate.



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